What I Wore Wednesday, the Craziest, Most Stressful, Bring Me to My Knees in Tears Day of the Week

Wednesday. Yesterday. I thought I had it all together. I finally published my first blog post since January and I was feeling motivated and ready to roll. My second blog post was on my agenda for the day. I drank my first cup of coffee and logged in to my website with a great big inspired smile on my face. Only to quickly discover that the universe and all of its technology had other plans for me.

On Tuesday, none of my pictures since Saturday were loading onto my iCloud account so that I could access them via my laptop. Wednesday morning, everything was there, available, and ready for my use. But then WordPress kept giving me errors every time I tried to a load a photo onto my website. At first I attempted to troubleshoot the problem myself via Google searches. There was lots of information out there regarding the problem I was having; however, all the technical jargon was throwing me for a loop. After about 3 solid hours of trying to solve the problem myself, I contacted online customer support through my host. After waiting 26 minutes for a tech to be available, she concluded in about 3 minutes that they could not resolve the issue as it was a problem with WordPress.

So I spent 4 more hours trying to figure how to get live WordPress support, but to no avail. Again back to troubleshooting the issue myself. Most answers I was finding were pointing back to the host as the starting point for a resolution for this particular problem. But the host already said they could not resolve it. So instead of taking that route again, I decided I needed to upgrade my version of WordPress. This took about 20 minutes to complete the upgrade process, and BAM! MY ENTIRE WEBSITE DISAPPEARED! GONE! COMPLETELY GONE. Like the day I first started it. A blank page with zero content. OMG.

I sat there for a good 30 minutes, trying to take deep breaths and calm down. Rationalizing with myself that everything on the internet is always there in some form. Pepping myself up that if the content was indeed completely gone that I would just create a new website and make it even better. All the while fighting back the tears.

Okay. Calm enough now. I contacted my host’s online support for the second time. Waited 23 minutes for an available tech. The tech worked on it for about 5 minutes, came back, and requested a few more minutes. And much to my wondering eyes did appear, my website back in its original form with all of its content in tact! And…the tech also rectified the initial picture loading problem! I don’t know what he did and frankly I don’t really care. But he saved my day and my website! No thanks to the first tech who cost me hours of time and a panic attack!

All the while this was going on, for hours upon stressful hours, I was sitting at my computer getting my outfit of the day all wrinkled and crinkled and never even left my house except for a brief excursion to my back yard to take a few photos. Since no one else other my children witnessed me dressed yesterday, I guess I will share said outfit with you fine people.


During my blogging hiatus, I have started participating in a wonderfully fun style challenge almost daily. The super cool Oregon couple, Mercedes and Andy, put out a Colors of the Day challenge every Monday through Friday and so many interesting, creative, and beautiful folks share their unique styles on their Facebook Group Page, COTD Style. Yesterday’s challenge was Hyundai Veloster Red and Steel Wool Gray. Hence, the colors in my outfit. If you are interested in participating with COTD, definitely send a request to be added to their Facebook group. You can also follow along and participate on COTDStyle on Instagram.





Outfit Details:
Top: Old Navy
Pants: Gap Factory Outlet
Shoes: Payless ShoeSource (very old)
Tassel Necklace and Earrings: Cato Fashions
Evil Eye Necklace: Michal Golan

Has anyone else ever had a scare like mine…losing your entire website? Any technological tips you fellow bloggers have to offer is always greatly appreciated!

If you get the chance to check out the COTD Style Facebook Group, please let me know how you like it!

Still keeping it on the edge (and only one day behind on my planned blogging schedule),


Linked with: Shopping My Closet Style Me Wednesday Blog Link Up, Pumps and Pushups Oh, Hey Girl! Link-Up, Classy Yet Trendy Trendy Wednesday Link-Up, Sydney Fashion Hunter Fresh Fashion Linkup, Color and Grace Linkup Party, Jersey Girl, Texan Heart Link Up, High Latitude Style Top of the World Style Link Up Party, A Labour of Life Link Up, Doused in Pink Thursday Fashion Files Link Up, Katherine’s Corner Thursday Favorite Things Blog Hop Link Party, Happiness at Midlife Throw Back Thursday Fashion Link Up, Thursday Moda with Elegance and Mommyhood, My Refined Style Link Up at Fashion Should Be Fun, Foxy’s Domestic Side, Shop Your Closet by Jaymie Ashcraft, Claire Justine Weekend Blog Hop, Rachel the Hat #Passion4Fashion Link Up, Style Elixr Fab Fridays Link Up, Forage Fashion, Link Party with Osy at Style Diary by Osy, The Closet by Christie, Jeans and a Teacup Flashback Fashion Friday, Fancy Friday Link Up with Nancy’s Fashion Style

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I am a 40 something Army wife and stay-at-home mother of 2 boys and 2 cats named Dave and Frankie. I have a passion for helping other women feel fabulous in the midst of this crazy, beautiful life.

24 Responses

  1. Mercedes

    Thank you for the props! We have great fun at COTD Style and love havin’ you play along. You have fantastic style! Doesn’t matter if you are female, male; 82 or 2 years old; black, white, or anything between; gay, straight, or whatever orientation; conservative or über hip. Everyone is welcome! And STYLE includes anything anyone deems cool too: clothing, art, cars, plants, books – whatever. So glad you found us, and thanks again sharing your love for COTD Style! -Mercedes

    • Mercedes, a big fat thank you to both you and Andy for running this whole COTD show! It is so much fun for me as well. It definitely keeps me inspired! Keep doing what you do! Stay fabulous!


  2. Hustle struggles! I feel you! Love those cute pants!!

    xx Leah / http://www.eatpraywearlove.com

  3. Technical problems are the worst! Glad you were able to get everything fixed! This is such a cute outfit! Love your top and those printed pants are so fun!

    Doused In Pink

    • Thanks so much, Jill! Apparently, this Mercury in Retrograde idea is not a joke! I’m not big into astrology, but my goodness…my computer keeps going offline, virus warnings keep popping up, and I can’t seem to figure out my new tv remote control! Sheesh. Technology. I will get you someday!


  4. Lovely top, the colour suits you so much 🙂

    Thanks for sharing at the weekend blog hop

  5. Hi Shelbee I have no idea what I would do if this happened to me.
    Sometimes I feel a little adventurous and find myself tweaking the blog template only to remember that I never backed it up-..
    Glad you were able to find a helpful technician 🙂

    • Thanks for stopping by, Lorena! You have no idea how relieved I was that the tech recovered my website. I didn’t back it up either (because I don’t even know how to do that…guess I should figure that out…like now!) I’m done playing around with my website for awhile!


  6. Tech problems are so stressful! I hear you on that, I work on a legitimate dinosaur of a computer every day and some days it feels like it’s going to die instead of save something. Glad you got it all sorted!
    COTD is lots of fun, isn’t it? So great to get you out of a rut of wearing the same things all the time.

    • Thanks so much for stopping by, Airdrie! Thumbs down to tech problems, but huge thumbs up to COTD! I am so glad I was invited to join so many months ago. You all definitely keep me inspired!


  7. Thank you so much for linking up!

  8. Oh you poor soul, Shelbee. Whilst I’ve never lost my blog or website before, I can only imagine how devastating that would be. And I’m exceedingly happy for you, that the issue was resolved. Even more happy that you decided to share your outfit photos because the pants are really cool!!

    And speaking of coolness, my weekly Friday link-up is live and on the blog now, Shelbee, and I would love for you to come and share this outfit xoxo


    • Sheela, it was horrifying. I wish I could transcribe the entire conversation that occurred inside my head trying to not freak out! That would make a hilarious blog post! Now I’m super neurotic and paranoid about saving everything. 😬


  9. That sounds horrible!! So scary. I have lost things but usually, it’s something I’ve written and spent an hour on and can’t get back. A whole website would probably lead to hysteria. Glad you got it back. Great outfit, too!


    My Weekend Blog Hop post…

  10. Love your shirt! Such a pretty color!

  11. Very cute outfit! The colors are very pretty together!

    Sorry about your technical difficulties – I know how stressful it is when things go wrong… Glad you got everything resolved in the end!

    Happy Mother’s Day!

    Andrea’s Wellness Notes

  12. I have had computer issues lately so I can totally related. I love these tonal leopard pants with the red.

    Thank you for being a part of TBT Fashion link up and hope to see you soon!


    • Alice, computers issues are seriously the worst. Nothing makes me more frustrated!

      I am loving these pants, too. And I got them on clearance for around $10!